Brutally honest? You're projecting your own personal failings onto all women, and it has absolutely no bearing on this discussion whatsoever. What's more, it will haunt you if you don't deal with it now.
Go talk it out, either with a friend or a therapist. The longer you wait, the harder it will be.
>You're projecting your own personal failings onto all women, and it has absolutely no bearing on this discussion whatsoever.
I think like all other people you are missing my point.Please read my other responses on this thread.
But Yes I am certainly a failure so far by all conventional standards......but that does'nt mean I have the magical ability to get rid of all my biases....dealing with them is going to take time and in case of this particular bias ,perhaps a lot of positive experiences of interacting with women.
I didn't call you a failure per se; it was more an exhortation to quit the pity party, take responsibility for your misguided thinking, and do something about it. That is the point of my thread.
The specious arguments you put forth in the thread are not worth addressing.
Go talk it out, either with a friend or a therapist. The longer you wait, the harder it will be.